Ladies only be true why are majority girls so mean and do this to me?

okay first i am not conceited or bad but wat i do want to know is this y is it that *most* girls approach me for my looks and not for who i am i always have people tell me i am a very atrractive person*not full of myself* and when i dress up i get a lot of girls approaching me to go on dates but i dont seem to be turned on by dat because if a girl really likes u she wud like u for the personality and not your looks


and when i have my a hat covering half my face girls dont approach me because of how i look why are *most girls* this mean





And how can i tell if a girl really likes me for my personality and not my looksLadies only be true why are majority girls so mean and do this to me?
well, first of all, a girl isn't going to come up to you if you have a hat covering your face, it makes you seem like you're not open or interested. and let's face it, if you have never met someone before, the only first impression you have is their looks. (that's why i don't believe in ';love at first sight';) only... ';attraction at first sight';. but to really know if a girl is into you for you, you have to get to know her, that way she will, in return, get to know you. that is when you know if it is a real attraction or not. hope it helps : ]Ladies only be true why are majority girls so mean and do this to me?
she will flirt with you a lot.. okay so i used to like this one guy but he was really really ugly!! but he was really nice to me! so yeah.. most girls wouldn't want to go out with a ugly guy because they like to be popular but you just have to find one who will be open to you! :)
Well, you see looks first, so they will approach you for that. It's not like i go, ';oh he looks just super'; and go talk to him. they are drawn by attractiveness, but you will just know if a girl likes you for who you are!
Well, first you have to accept the fact that good looks are appealing. I'm sure you love beauty, not necessarily a person but beauty on anything.


So either you be able to deal with the fact or stay unsettled coz you'll meet thousands and there is no way you can tell everyone to love you for who you are since the first thing they will see is how you look even before you say a word.


On the other hand, you could be patient enough to meet the girls, talk to them, hang out and see how with time you relate to each other.


Naturally, some will fall for your looks, then with time, as people get used to each other, they realize the personality brings them together or pulls them apart.


You will know.
Think of it as a good thing that people approach you because of your looks. Being attractive is supposed to give you attention, and just because someone comes up to you and says your cute doesn't mean they won't like your personality. They haven't gotten to know you yet, but when they see you they think ';Hey, that guy's cute maybe I'll ask him on a date and get to know him.'; Your attractiveness is only the first impression and someone who cares about you will want to get to know you rather than just sizing you up because of your looks. Go on dates, have fun, and be happy that you're attractive. In your heart you'll know the difference between a girl that only likes you for your looks and one that likes you for your personality.
That's just how it works, but I understand how you feel. I'd rather have a guy go for my personality, but no guy is going to come up to me because I ';look'; like I have a good personality. But that has to do more with me (and maybe you). I worry that my looks will change as I get older (fatter, wrinklier, etc) and if a guy is staying with me because of my looks, then would he leave if my looks go bad? Looks will pull people in, but the personality will make them stay. If you know someone, you'll know if they like you just because of your looks and not who you are.
Because once they are past your awesome looks they may or may not like you for your personality, and if they do like you, then they'll stay. If not, they'll dump you in like a week. So maybe try going out with a girl for a little while, to see what happens. If you're a jerk (which I doubt you are, from what it seems), then she'll lose interest. Although girls are attracted to looks at first, in order to stay attracted you have to have a great personality. Does that make sense? Hope I helped! :]